You
heavens, give me that patience, patience I need!
-Lear
King Lear
Act II Scene iV, Line 272
It seems to me
that we’ve all used this line, or a version of it, at some time or another. I
certainly know that I have. It also seems to me, now that I think of it, that
much of the time this line is used it is in reference to the patience needed
with other people, not with things. Or perhaps I’m not correct about that. In
any event, with these lines Lear is looking for the patience he needs for
dealing with people: specifically his two daughters.
I can’t possibly
imagine having my own kids turn against me. I can remember, let alone imagine,
needing patience to deal with them, but not because they were turning against
me. I would certainly be looking, as Lear is, to the heavens for help if that
happened.
Anyway, I still
find myself looking for patience a lot, and a lot of the time it’s patience
needed dealing with people. People can be tough to deal with, can't they?
Here is someone I hardly, if ever, needed patience with. Of course, she was not a people.